Wooooooow! Parang kelan lang nung sinabi ng doctor sa akin, “Ano yan? Alam mo yan!" habang tinitingnan namin yung monitor sa ultrasound machine. I knew I was going to be a father. Wala namang bago dun. But it felt different when I saw with my own eyes that I was going to have a son.

I really didn’t know how it feels nor did I have an idea what it’s like to become a dad. I practically had no expectations, no experience. No nothing. I didn’t even like kids!
Then came the 5th of May 2008 when Carlos Joaquin Martinez was born. Oh my… He was so pale and white. I didn’t think he was my son when they first gave him to me to hold.
I really couldn’t put my finger kung sino talaga kamukha niya. I used to joke with my friends a lot about my first impression about my son. Sabi ko, “puro ilong”.
Tapos ayun, lumalaki na siya. A lot of people say that he looks like my wife. I just couldn’t see it. I thought, “hindi ko nga siya kamukha, pero, hindi rin siya kamukha ng mommy niya e?” I guess time will tell.
A couple of months more, ayaaaaaaaan. Lumalabas na. I thought my eyes were more squinted. See for yourself.
That’s me on the left a little over 30 years ago, and Carlos is on the right, a couple of months ago. We were both held by my Dad. Ang bilis talaga ng panahon! Ano kaya nasa isip ng Dad ko nung hawak naman niya si Carlos, ano?
Yesterday, lumabas kami. I got invited to my barkada’s birthday party. Actually, ang may birthday talaga is yung anak niyang bunso. Sinabay na rin sa celebration yung isa pa niyang anak, at pati na rin nung barkada ko kasi magkakalapit lang naman kaarawan nila. Sa paghahanda namin, nagulat na lang ako na ang anak ko pala ay natuto na ring maglakad na walang nakahawak sa kanya. Tingnan niyo.
Sobrang tuwang-tuwa ako makita siyang naglalakad! What made it more special is that he was wearing the clothes that we bought for him a few months back. Bagay sa kanya yung suot niya di ba?
The surprise didn’t stop there. Nagulat pa ako nung inabutan ng fried chicken ng mom ko si Carlos. Ayun, inupakan niya yung manok.
Kaka-aliw, di ba?
It’s April 5. Wow! 11 months have past. In a month’s time, 1 year old na si Carlos! Uy! Pumunta kayo sa kanyang party ha? Tulad ng kinagawian namin para kay Carlos, every month we celebrate his birth. Parang old Filipino tradition na ata yun. Kung kaya’t maaga pa lang, nag-ready na kami.
He was really happy and excited. Parang alam niya na araw niya ito. At ito naman ang mga simple naming hinanda para sa kanya.

Sa susunod na celebration, paniguradong mas bongga yun. Punta kayo ha?